I hate Mother's Day! I hate the guilt I feel, the inadequacy I feel, I hate trying to be imaginative in the gift giving-mostly because there really shouldn't be a gift, it should be a day of admiration, no gifts necessary. It all started for me when I was in the 2nd grade. We were given tiny little pine trees to care for and give to our mothers. Mine was an awful twig that despite my caring, did absolutely nothing. When Mother's Day came, I was too ashamed of my twig to take home to my mom so I dumped it by the stairs of the second grade doors.
When I got home, all my siblings were pridefully giving their gifts and crafts they made at school to mom. I said nothing. Finally, my mom asked, "Julie, did you do a craft?" I broke down and cried. I explained my gift wasn't good enough and that I left it at the school. My mom strapped me in the car and in the pouring rain we went to the school to find my twig. I thought certainly someone would have found it and thrown it away, then I wouldn't have to be embarrassed by the terrible looking thing. We found it though, and my mom was grateful and appreciative of the thought. It has scarred me forever!!!!!
At any rate, I decided this year I was boycotting Mother's day. At Christmas time, I was looking for stocking stuffers and found tickets to our favorite comedian, Brian Regan coming to the Tuacahn-Mother's Day weekend!!!!! Hooray for me! What luck! The kids had no idea what my real motive was, they just liked the idea of St. George in the Spring and Brian Regan! We had a fabulous time. We stayed at our friend's house-thanks Mark! We sunbathed, swam and shopped-it was a Mother's Day Miracle!!!!
I should also take a moment to thank the Mother's in my life. Thank you mom for teaching me right from wrong. Thanks for giving me the invaluable gift of story telling. Thank you for instilling in me the confidence I need to be a leader and a teacher and a Mother. I love you with all my heart.
Thank you Minette for raising a righteous, hard working man. He knows the value of hard work and never quits until the work is done. Thank you for teaching him to honor his priesthood and teaching him how important a dad is to his children.
Here's my cute kids! The pictures are blurry, I know! I've no excuse for that!
2 comments:
That is a fabulous idea! I'm so glad you had a nice Mother's Day! And your story was so sad but also sweet!
Glad you found a new home for your dog...sorry it has been so sad!!
Cute pics! What a fun idea-never been to Tuacahn. Sad story of your twig-I remember my stuff never grew-probably why I never plant flowers! ;)
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